Neither of us knew our neighbors growing up. Casey grew up on a farm with his grandparents as his closest neighbors. I grew up next to a retirement home.
We have lived in our house for a little over 8 years. I can tell you the names of two of our neighbors.
We are nice and wave hi to all the neighbors. Hopefully someone would call if our house was on fire or getting broken into. But we really don't "know" our neighbors. Its hard to hang out or meet them if they have older kids. Much older kids.
And really we aren't sure we want to be close to our neighbors. (What if you end up in a fight or don't get along, you still have to live by them!)
The family behind us went to school with Casey. They are awesome and we chat with them a lot. (You can check out her blog The Peck Life. Its cute and I love it!) They have a son around the same age as Jakah.
The family on the right of us is a pastor. They have 11 kids! We were worried when we heard they were moving in with that many kids. They are so kind and nice to us. We chat with them if we are all outside. They have kids around the same age (and a lot that are older.) They invite us to church but don't pressure us. They are awesome.
And they brought us dinner!
Since having Jensen, we have had dinner brought over to us three times. Once was by Casey's mom, his sister brought us lunch, and the other time was my BFF Sally.
Not that I expect people to bring us dinner.
But, some "friends", (I wrote about them Here) have called and wanted to see the baby. Since we don't really see them anymore, and they don't really talk to us, its kinda mad me made that she suddenly wants to see the baby. Makes me wonder if she would even talk to me at all if I didn't have a new baby.
So when the neighbors who we barely know and don't really socialize with brought over a baby gift, and dinner consisting of pizza, cookies, watermelon and gold fish crackers (for Jakah)
I was blown away by their kindness.
Just when I was feeling down, kinda alone, exhausted and having a rough week with the toddler, the people I least expected, My neighbors, were kind to us.